Monday, October 13, 2008

Walking a mile in Lucy's shoes...and other news

Hey everyone, sorry I haven't been online for awhile...the internet cafe near my house hasn't been open and I've been really busy with school and family.

It's been about two weeks since I last posted and I can't believe how fast time is flying by.

Last week, a group of my friends and I decided to go to the Nairobi Show - basically it is like a state fair. Once we got there, we ran into my friend Megan at the gate. Megan works with an orphanage in the slum and decided to take 50 kids - ages 2-18 to the fair. 50 kids! We decided these were too many kids for her to keep track of so we spent the day with them. I carried a little boy who must have weighed ten pounds, he didn't speak a word of english but was the most precious human being I have ever seen. He clung onto me with all of his might, I didn't ever want to let him go. I spent time holding this 13year old girl's hand, her name was Lucy. She asked me where my parents were, when I said America, she said, "My parents are dead." I looked down at her shoes and noticed they were women's high heels. A few sizes to big and heels so high I didn't know how she could walk in them. As we were leaving, I traded shoes with here. I could barely walk in those shoes! I asked her why she was wearing them, I guess that was a stupid question because they were her only shoes. I told her before I leave Nairobi I will come back and give her my old sandals. They fit her perfectly.

Last week I also went to a cousin's graduation party. She graduated from College and will be going to law school. The family was huge and so so so nice.

That is one thing I love: the people and their extreme kindness, even in times of what I see as extreme poverty, challenge, unfairness, oppression, hopelessness, etc. The people just get you everytime...their so amazing.

I also spent this past weekend with my cousin's Freddy and Linda. I had a blast. I stayed at their house and it was the hugest relief to spend time with Kenyans who are my age. They were so fun...we laughed so much I though I was going to die. They taught me some African card games and some dance moves...they made me three huge meals a day, took me around town, and paid for everything. They gave me their guest bedroom, the little hot water they had, and brought me home. They promised to visit me in my internship and made sure to give me their phone numbers in case I ever needed someone my age to talk to. When anyone at the bars looked at my weird or said something rude or annoying (believe me, when there are 100 black people and one white person, it is bound to happen) I thought Linda was going to beat them up...she would yell at them, "This is my cousin, leave her alone, she is white, but she is Kenyan!" After attempting to show my how to dance, her biggest compliment was that I was learning how to feel the beat like an African and that I was a lovely girl. I wish I could fly Freddy and Linda back to the USA just for a week or two.

I came home on Sunday to 5 little girls. After explaining to them that I was a part of the family, and that my freckles are not goosebumps and that yes - my hair is real, we had some girl time. We took a million pictures with my camera, and then they picked out some clothes for me and took turns braiding and brushing my hair until it was time for church.

I love church - the singing and dancing always puts me in a good mood. This time at church, the worship team was made up of 50 kids from the rift valley. Many of them lost their homes and families during the post election violence. A little boy came up to the microphone and thanked the church for helping them during the violence. Then they sang and danced. Church here goes at least 3 hours.

After church - we went to a place called Ngong Hills where my mom's parents live. We visited with them and the Grandma showed me around their farm. It was beautiful.

Now, I'm just concentrating on my last two weeks of school before I head over to Kisumu, near Lake Victoria and Uganda for my internship.

This coming weekend - a group of 15 of us are going rafting down the Nile and camping in Uganda...I'm so excited.

Not much else to report, I know this is a long one.

Ps - Thanks to everyone who emails me, sends me things, calls, comments, etc...I really do miss everyone at home and the luxuries of living in a developed country, whenever I get homesick I read over emails/comments/letters and it always makes me feel better - so thanks so much for being so thoughtful.

Love you all!
Chelsey

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi Chelsey,

I love when you write on your blog, I missed it last week when you didn't make a entry. Sounds like you are really getting comfy. I so glad that everyone is so nice, I am sure you are making a wonderful impression on them too with your warm heart. Nice change of pace to be with people your own age I am sure. Do you want to give me your host parents address instead of the organizations in case I find something and you are gone from there? Let me know.

I been very busy at the hotel and with Feline Snoozers. Sent a tower to Italy last week and will be shipping one to Japan this week. Now I can say I am worldwide!

I hope Makayne got ahold of you and you two had a nice visit. Dad has been crazy busy at work too, working days and nights, he is right here next to me and wants you to know he loves and misses you.

Grandma is having a dinner party next week for Grandpa's 80th birthday, I can't believe he is going to be 80. He is always asking about you and looks at his globe everytime you travel to somewhere to see where it is. It is also so nice that Nick's family keeps up and sends you messages, I am sure you love getting mail from home. Well gotta run, I will talking to you Tuesday at our regular time.

Love you :)
Mom

P.S. Have a great time next week rafting on the Nile!

Anonymous said...

Hi Chelsey.
Today is Tuesday, our day to take Mike to therapy.It's was also his 55th Birthday.
Got a big piece of chocolate cake at the hospital,did he like that.The Dr told Mike that maybe just maybe he could start taking some driving lessons in a month.How good is that?.
And if the college will ok it he could go back to work for two days a week.
He still has to have someone with him at home until his test on getting around with out a cane gets to 45.Today he scored 37 and that is a risk for falling.
It's cool and dreary today.
I love to hear what you are doing keep writing.
Love Gramdma

Anonymous said...

Hey Chelsey,
Love the blog...again! I really look forward to see what you have done the past week. It's amazing to hear of all your experiences. Good and bad. If we can do anything to help the orphange let us know. I know just simple things can make a big difference. I'm looking forward to the week-end. Everyone will be home. That doesn't happen very much. I probably won't see Nick much. He will be at the wedding all day Sat. I'm sure. Harvest is in full gear right now. It's beautiful, but starting to get chilly. Big news.... Grandma Georgie sold her house and will be moving in with us in the middle of Novemeber. It will be good for her and us! It will be a change though. Have a good time this week-end, stay safe! Love, The Brauns!

Anonymous said...

Hi Chelsey.
Was it ever nice to talk to you on wednesday. It's amazing when you think how far away you are.

Today is Thursday, our day to take Mike to therapy (Tuesdays & Thursdays). I had a bad night so Grandpa let me stay home.

The weather today was so perfect...a low of 34 this morning, a high of 53 this afternoon. Trimmed some bushes and pulled out all of my flowers.

Took the bird feeders in because the deer won't stay off the patio. Would you believe they come six feet from the bedroom window.

Have a great trip when you go rafting and camping. Grandpa & I have been river rafting on one of our trips...but, for the life of me I can't remember where. I do remember the yellow slickers we had to wear.

Please be careful, have fun and remember we love you.

Grandma

Anonymous said...

hi,
It's Sunday Oct. 19th and I can't get a hold of you on the phone or skype. I tried. -Nick